What an absolutely glorious day it is today. The sun is shining, the horribly cold wind that we have been having here recently has gone and I have my fingers crossed that Spring has arrived at last. Of all the days to start sniffing, coughing and sneezing it just had to be today! To be fair, it has been coming on for a few days but I am very intolerant of cold bugs - both in myself and in my family - and I thought that if I ignored it it would go away. Yesterday, although the weather was lovely, I wrapped myself up in hat, scarf and fleece and sowed two rows of broad beans on the allotment, thinking the fresh air would do me good. By bedtime it had not done the trick and this morning I was not at my best. So I have declared today a 'dog and blog' day. The boys had nice walks in the sunshine earlier and now that they are sleepily ensconced on their respective sofas, I am able to sit in the warmth of our south-facing sitting room and type away at the keyboard to my heart's content.
With the wind being so bitter last week, I tended to hurry with any activity that involved being out of the house. Consequently, I didn't see many people to talk to and it got me thinking that I would like to get to know more people, more specifically, others who have downshifted like myself. Being a long term reader of Country Living magazine, I put a post on their website forum, and I have been really heartened by the response. Not only have I had encouraging replies - thank you so much, emjay53, juliey and Gilly FB - but the number of people visiting my blog has mushroomed. I'm even getting listed on Google now. Wow! Do please feel free to leave comments on what you think of it. It's not nearly so rewarding if I think I am only talking to myself! It's a funny feeling knowing that so many people are reading my blog. It's rather like expecting visitors at home where you whizz round with the hoover and want your house to look at it's best. I will be casting a very critical eye over my punctuation on all my existing posts and pages later, whilst wearing my 'best' fleece to type my entries! Gilly FB, the violas at the top of the page are for you, so that you know that I am thinking of you.
Although Saturday dawned bright and breezy it rained heavily in the afternoon, so I used the time to make three banana and walnut loaves. I'd bought the bananas in a big bag for a pound at the market on Tuesday and still have a lot of walnuts left from those I collected last autumn. Once the loaves were cooked, I found there wasn't really enough room in the freezer to get two of them in, so, having removed a box of blackcurrants to make space, I made a batch of jam. In case anyone is worried that I am setting myself up as some sort of superwoman, it did take me until nine at night to get everything finished, washed up and put away.
Yesterday, we celebrated our seventeenth wedding aniversary. When we got married we lived in a hamlet in mid-Devon and Carrie, my eldest daughter, wore a little turquoise dress with a straw hat and carried a tiny basket full of wild primroses we'd collected from the hedgerows. The photo above was taken at the cemetery where my dad is buried and I'm really pleased to see that the staff who tend it are allowing these wild plants to flourish and multiply. We also had our annual general meeting for our allotment association yesterday and Si' and myself have taken on the secretary and treasurer's roles jointly for the forthcoming year. It makes sense for us as I am about more during the day to show prospective plot holders round, etc. Si' has been tremendously effective at letting our vacant allotments in the last year and our aim is to let the remaining ones in the next twelve months. We are getting to have a good mix of older and younger plot holders now and and it is developing into a nice little community with a shared interest in common.
I want to end this post by going back to it's title. When I was really busy with my former job, I would see people I might not have seen for ages in the street and apologise, as I passed them, for not having time for a chat. We were always going to catch up at some unspecified time in the future. It's a sad fact of life, then, that those opportunities are missed so, knowing that I would be finishing work, I made 'making time to chat' my New Year's resolution for this year. I'm happy to say that I am still sticking to it; even the dogs will lie down beside me on the pavement if they sense that the conversation will last more than a few minutes! We always made fun of my dad for bending people's ears but, my goodness, I've lost count of the number of people who tell me how much they miss those chats now. Me, included!













